MeditationMeditation for BeginnersHow To Plant Habits into ChildrenTo Be Kind And Generous (Mai Lang Num Jai)#3Train Children To Be Provident Towards Sexual Misconduct.Train Children To Be Provident Towards Sexual Misconduct.The truth is that we should avoid simulation towards sexual misconduct. Parents should be careful because catching the wrong point can be harmful for children and cold kill the children in cold blood.There’s a family with a 4 year old daughter in kindergarten. The person who brings the danger is nobody else but the child’s own mother. The mother is a beautician as her career and sells cosmetics. She always puts on makeup for her daughter since them. The daughter thinks it looks pretty. When the daughter grows up, she just keeps on doing that. The mother is pushing the daughter to grow up faster than she actually is. She isn’t interested in school at all.So instead of developing her education and her career, she just wants to be beautiful to attract the opposite sex, which might cause pregnancy before marriage. And the person who is hurt the most is the mother. it prevents wisdom from developing in the child. if the child is a boy and the mother does this, the boy will grow up gay. if the daughter gets pregnant before marriage then the mother will turn out to be a servant to the child and to the grandchild. The child will not be interested in working whether it is hard work or easy work. She will only be interested in fashion. To make a good deed, the parents shouldn't push the child to get into fashion, or makeup or lipstick because the child will try to grow up before his/her time and then it will be like the parent is trying to kill the child in cold blood.He will be unable to work, and have no wisdom. He will only think one way, which is to find a daughter-in-law for the parents. it's like the parents are killing him slowly. The parents must pray that their son does not make a girl pregnant.If parents don't teach them to be patient towards the opposite sex, they will have problems continuously. they should be taught to focus on studying and working instead. When they have knowledge, they will learn to control themselves to be patient to the opposite sex. if the parents don't lay the foundation down when the children are of don't lay the foundation down when the children are of working age they will find out that wherever they work they will have problems with sexual miscomduct. With that they will have problems with sexual misconduct. With that they will add more trouble. if the boy meets the girl, gets involved and the girl starts to get attached to the boy, she will start to serve the boy and manipulate him like playing a trick. The girl must be careful if the boy is somebody else's husband. if you can't think of providence, you caqnnot get away from this situation and the girl could become the boy's mistress.The next category is the gentleman and the lady. The parents shouldn't rush for the children to grow up before their time. don't let the children get interested in dressing. They should only be interested in school and training for a career, so they will learn to have responsibility. When the children grow up they will learn how to control their minds and learn how to control themselves and prevent loss of reputation with regards to the opposite sex.In fact, money can't but everything, especially purity of mind.Train Children To Be Provident Towards The Desire of Money.Our grandparents always say that honesty offers good things continuously while cheating gives us something for just a short period. Parents should teach and be the example for children from when they are youg that will stand out in the childrens' minds.If children get the wrong image tht money can buy everything, they will respect money more than they respect parents.They might be able to do anything to get money by cheating, stealing, and selling their bodies without being ashamed.In fact, money can't but everything, especially purity of mind. You are unable to buy it. The word is that if you have honesty, you have something all the time. But if you cheat you only have something for a while.Most people become bad because of being a slave to money. they want to be rich, famous, and powerful so they use money to corrupt others and buy their position. The corruprion is on the table and under the table and under the table. This is the cause of slow improvement in Thailand. Thailand has a complete sustainable nature and land but they will not progress because there is too much corruption.Dishonesty or impatience towards the desire drive of money happens because of lack of training to be patient enough. it is also the effect from parents buying everything that the children want. So they can't classify the need and they buy the unnecessary things.
How To Plant Habits into Children To Be Kind And Generous (Mai Lang Num Jai)#3
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