MeditationMeditation for BeginnersHow To Plant Habits In Children So TheyWill Become Disciplined And Responsible (Mai Sab)#4Parents should teach them the proper way to bathe.3) Cleaning BehaviorIf you want your children not to be “Sab” you must train them not only in time management but also with regards to cleaning behavior. If any children don’t like to be clean then they will have3 difficulty in taking care of themselves. Wherever they go and whatever group they will want to be in, nobody will want them. Children especially must know how to bathe.Parents should teach them the proper way to bathe. They must learn how to take a clean bath by using less water, soap, and less time.Clothing should also be clean. It should be taught from when they were born. Parents should often change diapers for the baby to keep him/her clean. When they grow up, they will get used to being clean by themselves.At the same time the mother who trained the children to washand trained them for self responsibility even if they play hard.4) Organizing BehaviorWithout organizing behavior, children will not know any procedures to organize things well. Others will be tired fro follow-up cleaning for them.For example, doing laundry is one of basics in cleaning. When the children grow up you should train the children to wash their clothes. But the parents do not teach them. They use the servants to do it or the parents do it by themselves. So the children will have no responsibility or they will not know how to be organized.At the same time one of the mothers sees that another child can do their laundry so this mother trains the child to do their own laundry. The child learns with small items because the big clothes are too heavy.When they grow up a little more they train the child to wash the socks, then the shirts, the skirts and the pants. She trains them from the easy to the hard and builds up the habit of responsibility and organization for the child.In the end the child will have the habit of organization from the beginning. When they go to work the big job will be easily organized and they will know how to look at the habit of responsibility and organization for the child.In the end the child will have the habit of organization from the beginning. When they go to work the big job will be easily organized and they will know how to kook at the big picture to plan the job. This concept is difficult to teach, but the child will learn from the beginning.At the same time another child’s parents did not train them. When they grow up they don’t know how to accomplish things. Even the parents take care of the clothes or a maid prepares the clothes for them. When the time comes the child just wears the clothes. When the child finishes wearing it, he/she will bring it to the parents or the maid.The mother should teach the child how to hang the clothes to dry by categorizing.If the parents raise the children like this then the parents are responsible for the child step by step and the child won’t know how to take care of his/her belongings. The children will not know how to wash clothes, will not have any responsibility, and will not be organized.At the same time the mother who trained the children to wash and trained them for self responsibility even if they play hard.So the child must be careful and s/he must take care of his/her clothes. This is the way you train the habits of responsibility and organization. The group who knows how to do laundry and the group who doesn’t know how to do laundry have habits that are not the same. The habits of organization are not the same. That is that one is ready for responsibility and organization and the other group doesn’t want the responsibility. They also don’t want to know rules and regulations.
The mother should teach the child how to hang the clothes to dry by categorizing. She can also teach children to know what should be done and what shouldn’t. The handkerchiefs should be on the top round, the middle should be pants and skirts, and the bottom should be the socks and underwear, White and color cloth need to be in different sunlight. These rules can make children to become dedicated to doing everything neatly.When the child grows up, he/she knows how to separate, will know what to do, what gets hung low on the clothesline, what gets hung high on the clothesline and what to do and not to do, But some households did not teach the proper way to hang and they put all clothes on the same rounds. So this child, when s/he grows up will not know which goes low and which goes high and this child will face problems in his/her life. For example, people don’t separate the clothes and put all of the clothes in the same container, and when this child gets married whoever marries him/her will see that s/ he puts the handkerchiefs with the underwear and hang dries them together but they can’t stay with each other. They have to be divorced. This happens to many couples. This results from the parents not training them from when they are very small.
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